The Most Important Lesson Our Children Can Learn: Love Yourself First
Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA

The Most Important Lesson Our Children Can Learn: Love Yourself First

Many of us grow up believing that kindness is something we only offer to others. But what if we turned that kindness inward and spoke to ourselves the way we would a friend? In this post, I share a heartfelt conversation I witnessed and why self compassion will be one of the most important tools our children will carry through life.

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Why I Choose Blend Over Balance as a Working Parent
Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA

Why I Choose Blend Over Balance as a Working Parent

The idea of finding the perfect balance in our busy lives sounds appealing - an equal split between work and family life. But the reality is it’s just not possible. Life as a working parent is rarely that neatly divided. That’s why I’ve come to prefer the word blend.

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The Fear of Missing Out: The Cost of Saying No
Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA

The Fear of Missing Out: The Cost of Saying No

Have you ever said no to a break because you didn’t want to miss out on time with your family, only to feel burnt out anyway? You're not alone. This blog shares my thoughts on the fear of missing out as a parent, and why choosing rest isn’t a loss, but a quiet act of love, for you and them.

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Finding Balance as a Parent and a Coach: Navigating Both with Intention
Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA

Finding Balance as a Parent and a Coach: Navigating Both with Intention

Balancing parenting and running a coaching practice is challenging but doable. Here are five strategies that help me stay grounded and present, for my family and clients. From setting boundaries to embracing imperfection, these tips might help you juggle it all too!

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Rest, Reflect, Recharge: Choosing Self-Compassion in Parenting
Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA

Rest, Reflect, Recharge: Choosing Self-Compassion in Parenting

Taking time for yourself isn’t easy - guilt and inner doubts often get in the way. But by choosing compassion and prioritising rest, you allow yourself to reset. The result? You show up as a more patient, present, and compassionate parent, better able to handle family life’s demands.

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Quietening the Inner Critic
Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA

Quietening the Inner Critic

We’ve all heard that internal voice - the one that insists we’re not good enough, that we’re failing, or getting it all wrong. Its messages are rarely rooted in truth. But what if you could silence it? What if you could reframe its narrative into one that empowers you?

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Back at My Desk: Reflections and Intentions for 2025
Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA

Back at My Desk: Reflections and Intentions for 2025

The New Year offers a natural pause to reflect on our journey, honouring lessons, growth and challenges overcome. It’s a chance to set intentions, embrace change and welcome new possibilities. This year, let’s prioritise balance, self-compassion, and emotional wellness as the foundation for all we aim to achieve.

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Beyond the Wardrobe: Unlock your Narnia
Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA

Beyond the Wardrobe: Unlock your Narnia

What Lies Behind the Doors of Your Narnia?

This simple yet powerful metaphor beautifully captures what coaching can offer. Coaching is like stepping through the wardrobe into Narnia - a journey into the unknown, where endless possibilities and a life you didn’t realise was possible await. It’s about discovering the magic that already resides within you, and opening doors to a version of yourself that you didn’t even know existed.

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Stepping Into the Arena: The Lessons we Model in Courage and Growth
Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA

Stepping Into the Arena: The Lessons we Model in Courage and Growth

In this post, I share a profound conversation with my 6-year-old son. It’s a moment that highlights the powerful lessons we can teach our children by role modelling our own courage and vulnerability through stepping into the spotlight of our own arenas and showing them what it means to embrace growth and strength.

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The Power of Vulnerability
Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA Sophie Abell, BSc Hons, EIA

The Power of Vulnerability

In this post, I share a deeply vulnerable moment from my life, hoping to inspire you to welcome vulnerability into your own. The truth is, when we choose to show up with the courage to be vulnerable, we unlock the potential for growth, new opportunities, and meaningful experiences. I hope you find value in this reflection and take away whatever resonates with you.

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